Ask Why When You Find You’re Conflicted

Ask Why When You Find You’re Conflicted

I’ve always encouraged my kids to ask why. Most parents get frustrated at that oft-repeated question, myself included. However, being able to question and interrogate a situation or circumstance is a skill of vital importance. That’s because, in seeking...
The Secret to Building Character Traits on Purpose

The Secret to Building Character Traits on Purpose

Purposefully building character traits may be one of the underlying reasons for embarking on this grueling study of Jonathan Edwards’ resolutions two years ago. As I enter into the home stretch of it, this may be the only time I have directly acknowledged that fact....
Check Yourself – There’s Never a Wrong Time for it

Check Yourself – There’s Never a Wrong Time for it

It’s important to check yourself on occasion. It’s a way to know what’s going on in your head and in your heart. I say this knowing full well there is a sinister vibe that likes to flow through my own soul. It’s not something I am proud of. And, truth be...
Is it Possible to Live (and Die) with No Regret?

Is it Possible to Live (and Die) with No Regret?

I’d like to say I have no regret in life. But that would be a lie. I am human, so it’s inevitable that I will have wished I had done some things differently. For instance, I once thought it might be fun to throw marbles into a nest of ground bees. I immediately...
Finding True Virtue in a World Full of Empty Virtues

Finding True Virtue in a World Full of Empty Virtues

I belong to an organization upholding virtue is a core value. But I bet it’s not a word any of hear all that often, let alone speak of it. So, it begs the question, what exactly is virtue? A simple definition of virtue from Dictionary.com points to strong moral...
Purposes of Self-Discipline and Impact it Produces

Purposes of Self-Discipline and Impact it Produces

Self-Discipline is a missing proficiency in many lives. And that’s tragic. I’ve found that much of Jonathan Edwards resolutions – and life in general – can be boiled down to this single, hyphenated phrase. Self-Discipline. Surely Ewards revered it. He held...
Let’s Restore Charity Back to its Fruit-Filled Roots

Let’s Restore Charity Back to its Fruit-Filled Roots

Benevolence is a word for charity that we hear less often that we once did. It’s usually in the context of an organizational benevolence fund created to help people during distressed seasons of life. Today, though, I think we just commonly lump everything into...