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When it comes to having a progressive mindset toward discipleship, it is about God before self`... No matter what… At all times - And all ways.

Personal Discipleship Requires Having a Progressive Mindset

Many things in life and work require having a progressive mindset. I’ve come to understand that this is especially true when it comes to personal discipleship. Before I explain that and put it into context of Edwards’ second resolution, let me explain a bit....

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Bad moods are an inevitable part of the human condition. Take time to stop and consider their ripple effect, and how much more valuable the impact on others, if you were to be disciplined enough to counter your condition with positive moods.

Moodiness and Bad Moods… and Why They’re Stupid!

Bad moods are inevitable. Some of us find our way into them more often than others, but it happens to us all. It may be caused by how we are feeling, events that happen, as a response to stress, or just because. Heck, I have been so moody, it seems like I am sometimes...

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Looking for a life transformation? It might come from “5 easy steps.” But it probably won’t. A true life transformation begins as a quest for the heart.

True Life Transformation Begins in The Heart, and We Can’t Do it Alone

The idea of life transformation isn’t new. Although, it’s usually mentioned in the context of self-help or motivational speaking, those quests are overwhelmingly fruitless. In fact, there is no shortage of books, videos, blogs, conferences, pyramid scams and the like...

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Throughout life, there are many personal influences. How can we be mindful of them and learn to filter the appropriate from the undesirable?

The Right Personal Influences and Being Mindful of Them

I credit many people as being positive personal influences in my life. Some are long-time influences, while others are short-lived. Likewise, there were many events and happenstance that I pinpoint as personal influences of both me and my entire generation. Take a...

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We encounter gray areas in many ways. But, just because it’s not clearly one way or another, have we gone too far by considering a “gray area” to be synonymous with “yeah, it’s wrong, but since it’s a gray area, it’s okay”? Edwards saw this likelihood, and perhaps he drafted resolution 39 for that reason.

Are You Too Comfortable in the Gray Areas of Life?

Life comes with a lot of gray areas. We meet them in many situations, whether it’s in business, marriage, following laws, or otherwise. Too often, though, when someone says, “it’s sort of a gray area" they say it to infer “yeah, it’s not right, but it’s a gray area,...

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Personal accountability is almost a dying art. I think that is why Edwards make sure to resolve to hold himself accountable to his resolutions.

Resolve to Have Personal Accountability in Life

There often seems to be a lacking of personal accountability in our world. In fact, it seems like personal accountability is a dying skill, much like cursive and Latin. That's why I love that Edwards built personal accountability into his 23rd resolution. And I don't...

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Judging others is a frequent Christian Living trope. Edwards 21 Resolution shows we should seek to be living as the judged and NOT as the judges.

The Hypocrisy and Reason for Judging Others

Not a day goes by that I don't find myself judging others. On the one hand, I grow angry with myself because I am judging others. On the other hand, I thank God for revealing to me those things I should seek to rid from my life and being. In that regard, it is a gift....

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Knowing and making the right Christian response to conflict and in small moments shows a grasp of personal discipline, cultivated wisdom, submission to the Holy Spirit, and more.

What’s the Right Christian Response in Big & Small Moments?

One of my former pastors encourages people to ask “what is the right Christian response to this?” when faced with conflict. It's not just conflict, though. It’s an appropriate question for all matters of life. Being able to press pause for questioning an appropriate...

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Is your church doing discipleship wrong? It’s more than a boxed set of lessons. In Discipled by Jesus, Robert Gelinas points a thought-provoking way back to Jesus, challenging what you thought you knew about discipleship.

Reforming Discipleship – A Review of Discipled by Jesus by Robert Gelinas

What if your church is doing discipleship wrong? Is that a question you’ve ever considered? I doubt many of us have. And that’s okay. But the reality is, discipleship is serious stuff. That being the case, we should give serious and proactive thought to how we are...

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